Sunday, September 9, 2012

Grrrrr.....

Why do I feel like I am about to cry? I'll tell you why. Because I am tired of living in an apartment with (a) stupid nosy neighbor who writes us and all the other neighbors up for any infraction of the HOA rules, our most recent letter in this case being the storing of something other then our car in the garage. (Hello, where, exactly are we supposed to store bikes and strollers if not in our garage?) I am tired of being sent letters from the HOA about how I am not allowed to have my beautiful hanging planters up outside on my deck. I am tired of this same stupid neighbor writing us up for leaving our hose screwed in, especially considering we have no immediate next door neighbor, so NO ONE CARES! Except for said neighbor. I keep trying to talk myself into feeling sorry for her, since she obviously must have a miserable life, and all the rest of the neighbors share my feelings for her, but it is getting REALLY hard. I feel like crying because it just makes no economic sense for us to even move to a different rental. I feel like crying because I really want a house--I want someplace to call my own, and to paint, and plant a garden, and put in the kind of flooring I want...but again, with the outrageous price of housing here, and considering we will likely be here for less then three more years, that doesn't make sense, either. I am getting so tired of trying to be patient for everything. I feel guilty for writing this post, because there are so many in the world that have next to nothing, and here I am complaining. Which makes me feel even worse. I should go to bed.

2 comments:

Evaly said...

I know how you feel! We have been there with the crazy neighbor situation
http://evalylearningbyheart.blogspot.com/2008/05/dragon-lady-aka-beast-aka-our-crazy.html That is so hard. I am sorry you have to deal with that. Sometimes I feel like we will never buy a house and I feel really bad about it. It's hard to be patient when you have a house full of kids and you need space! I'll say a prayer for you (and your grumpy neighbor :)

e.a.s. said...

Come on sister! You come from a proud passive-aggressive heritage! Go up to your neighbor, oh so sweetly, maybe a little tearfully tell her that you've tried to be good neighbors and keep things looking nice but that you keep getting letters from the hoa that you know are instigated by her that make you feel like you've offended her somehow. Ask her to forgive you if you've offended her and please tell you what the problem is so you can avoid offending her in the future. Make her see you as a person! Barring that working, send her an anonymous letter: I know who you are. I know you keep reporting violations to the hoa. Trespass on my property or report one more violation and I will make you and all you love suffer!!!
Trust me, it will make you feel a lot better.